TEDxNTU
Posted in Chronological,Finger ThoughtsMarch 7, 2012
People fail to enjoy momentary pleasures, such as eating their favourite food or sleeping an extra hour, in the pursuit of a “better future”. Do you think this is a right way to pursue happiness?
Not necessarily. Happiness that we receive in the short run is subject to the law of diminishing returns. As we consume more and more momentary pleasures, the marginal benefit (happiness) of doing so decreases. A parallel example would be that we enjoy more happiness from eating a snack once in a while than eating one additional snack after having ate five snacks in a row.
On the flip side, if we impose draconian controls on our consumption of momentary pleasures, we will find that in the end we will be devoid of happiness as potential benefits from consumption are not materialized.
Therefore as the time costs of momentary pleasures are fixed, as long as we are able to strike a balance between consuming too many and too few momentary pleasures, we will able to strike the optimum balance between short term and long term happiness.
If you are asked to send a ‘joke’ to a prisoner, that will be read to him just before his execution, what would it be?
“One day char siew pao and mantou went to the cinema. Char siew pao cried, but mantao didnt. Why?
Because mantao had no ‘fillings’.
After that char siew pao and kaya pao went to the cinema too. Char siew pao again cried, but kaya pao laughed. Why?
Because kaya pao has different ‘fillings’.
Finally, char siew pao decided to go the the cinema with big pao. Char siew pao cried, but big pao wept endlessly. Why?
Because big pao had big feelings.”
One may point out that the joke neither contains a specific meaning nor appeals to the context of which it is being told. But the joke aptly demonstrates that the creation of happiness need not be bounded by rational considerations, and that in the instant before divorce between man and life, the ‘absurd walls’ of life become all more apparent; thus human life’s meaninglessness is laid bare, and death is but just a simple step into the absurd.
Why do you feel happy when your favourite team wins a game/series?
The happiness comes from a visceral feeling of pride and exuberance in regards to what the team has done. A feeling of belonging towards the team is felt, and one will attempt to identify oneself with the team.
Supporting a team is like playing the lottery without having to pay anything! If the team wins, one feels much happier, if the team loses, any sadness is momentary and fleeting. It’s a win-no lose situation.
I got selected, but now the school doesnt allow me to go. =(





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